Holly, one of my pets, died recently of advanced heart disease. Though I have 7 other pets, not a day goes by that I don't think of her and feel her loss. If you or someone you know has recently gone through this painful experience or are about to, here are a few suggestions for bringing closure and dealing with the grief process:
- Ask your vet to take a paw print impression, or you can order the kit online and do it yourself
- Take a fur clipping of your pet
- Create a memory book of your pet's life, which can include your favorite photos and special things you remember about your pet (like Holly's penchant for resting on my slippers while she chewed on her rawhide bone)
- Establish an online memorial for your pet. Many pet shelters and rescue group offer these types of memorials, with donations benefiting the shelter. Someone set one up for me, and it was comforting to know that Holly still had a tangible presence in this world.
- If you want to establish a link with your pet in its new world, try a pet psychic. Since there are many who claim to have this talent (and don't), be sure to use someone who is recommended by a friend, who has ideally used the psychic's services and was happy with the results
- Plant a special tree in your pet's honor, such as a Japanese Maple or dogwood tree. Their festive color changes during the different seasons of the year will be a pleasant reminder of your beloved pet.
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